The hidden math of letting go
The grind is a trap.
I was standing in line at Crema on Larimer when it hit me. Not the caffeine, that came later, but a weird, almost mathematical thought about generosity. The woman in front of me smiled, waved me ahead, and said, “Go for it, I’m just waiting on mine.” That was it. A four-second act. And somehow, it messed with my whole mental equation for success.
I’ve spent most of my life optimizing. Optimizing my work, my workouts, my workflow. If it can be measured, it can be improved. But generosity doesn’t fit neatly into that system, does it? You can’t A/B test a good deed. You can’t track the ROI of holding the door.
And yet, when I look back at every real leap in my career, every inflection point where something just clicked, it started with giving something away. An idea. A connection. A process I could’ve kept to myself. So maybe generosity is math. Just not the kind we’re used to doing.
When I built the Five Ps framework, I didn’t realize it was secretly about generosity. It started as a system to help founders scale, something logical, tactical, and clean. But over time, I noticed the pattern. Every P is really a way of letting go.
- Purpose: letting go of confusion.
- People: letting go of control.
- Process: letting go of chaos.
- Progress: letting go of ego (data doesn’t care about your feelings).
- Pivot: letting go of the plan itself.
Purpose: letting go of confusion.
People: letting go of control.
Process: letting go of chaos.
Progress: letting go of ego (data doesn’t care about your feelings).
Pivot: letting go of the plan itself.
The whole framework is a kind of generosity loop. You give away clarity, power, knowledge, recognition, and certainty. And what you get back is growth, culture, momentum, and freedom.
But here’s the catch: letting go always feels like loss before it feels like gain. I used to grip everything in my business with white-knuckle intensity. Every client call, every deliverable, every decision. It was exhausting, and honestly, kind of small. Like trying to fly while holding on to the ground.
Then one day, I handed off a key project to my team. And they crushed it. Better than I would’ve. It was humbling and relieving at the same time, like finding out your kid can finally ride their bike without training wheels, and you’re proud, a little sad, and suddenly free to jog beside them instead of holding the seat.
That’s the hidden math of letting go. You subtract control and somehow add momentum.
So here’s my question for you. What are you still gripping so tightly it’s slowing you down? This week, try giving something away, a process, a bit of credit, a chance for someone else to shine. See what happens when you stop guarding your growth and start sharing it. You might just find that generosity isn’t a cost. It’s a multiplier.
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Mindset
The best way to predict the future is to create it. — Peter Drucker
Hot Takes
The best advice a mentor ever gave me: a good mentor provides a compass, not a map. (twitter/X)
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Thanks for reading.- Jason
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